Hi there,

I started writing this post a while ago but then IE ate my post, so I am going to try and remember everything I wrote...

I'm a 30 year old, (usually technically competent) bisexual woman living in Australia.

I'm into BDSM on probably a way more casual basis than everyone else here! But I thought it would be better to let you all know rather than trying to fake being a hardcore BDSM-er... My interests (as far as BDSM goes) are submission, pain (again, not with the hardcore) bondage, humiliation, exhibitionism... there's probably some things I've forgotten too...

Partly the reason BDSM is less lifestyle for me is that between partners, workload, time and privacy, there's not always so much opportunity for me to practice it. Plus partner and I have differing (though often complementary) tastes, so it's often easier to go with the lowest common denominator, if you know what I mean...

Anyway, after all that blurb, I have a question... partner and I have finally found a fantasy/scene in common that we want to work out how to do (safely). In the past, with me being bi, we've had plenty of threesomes, but it's always been with friends, girlfriends etc... and now, we both want to play out this scene...

which is that...

partner procures someone to fuck/use me, whom I have never met (though, obviously, he will have vetted them - most likely a friend of his). Aside from the obvious safe sex stuff, and making sure someone's not a psycho, what precautions would you recommend? Would you use a contract? How do you go about negotiating stuff like this?

Anyway, that's all from me... looking forward to hearing people's suggestions!

Miss E
xx