Quote Originally Posted by WyldWyl View Post
I guess, in the most general possible terms, my question is 'is it ethical to give someone something they take pleasure in, even though in the long run it may be harmful to them?'
So as soon as somebody enjoys something that isn't heteronormative we should look into that persons past to see where it went wrong?

It's a very arrogant assumption you make. Who are you to tell somebody what may or may not be harmful to them in the long run? If it makes them happy, then where's the harm? If sex isn't about pursuit of happiness, then what is it?