Average Penis size

[Kostly]

Why is it bad to talk about my penis on a site that SPECIFICALLY deals EXCLUSIVELY with SEX??? I mean I have gotten this same response before... people get angry if someone says, I got a BIG penis.... but if a girl says, I GOT DD BREASTS... she gets 50,000 Emails... is this a double standard or what?

Or all joking placed aside do people actually think that this matters at all? I know I have bedded a few girls because of it... but truthfully, I kinda regret thoose girls...

But it was a good time, so What The Hell...

lol
Kostly

[pam]

"Or all joking placed aside do people actually think that this matters at all? I know I have bedded a few girls because of it... but truthfully, I kinda regret thoose girls..."

I think it depends on the individual, but from all the men I've spoken to in business over the years, they seem to "think" size matters. The same way women who aren't endowed think they're lacking something, well, guys tend to think the same thing, but that's thanks to watching porn videos where all the men seemingly have 10 inches (remember, most porn guys are very short, too, so appear larger).

Size does not matter to me, but admittedly, there are, uhm, areas where I prefer something larger .. and if the guy is not naturally equipped well then there are always dildoes that can do the job -- and since he's controlling the dildo action .. 'nuff said

*turning up the a/c*

[veru_skjava]

*nodding lots to Bruce and TG Sirs*

Its not size, in fact, its not even being aware of size that matters to me.

Its like TG Sir said, the mind, the mouth, and well fingers... Its knowing how to make me happy, and doing so.

giggles, ok Kostly, your point is well taken, but I have not really ever heard women bragging about their breasts....

Hey double standards apply often we may not like them, but they are a reality...

veru

[Kostly]

Originally posted by veru_skjava
*nodding lots to Bruce and TG Sirs*

Its not size, in fact, its not even being aware of size that matters to me.

Its like TG Sir said, the mind, the mouth, and well fingers... Its knowing how to make me happy, and doing so.

giggles, ok Kostly, your point is well taken, but I have not really ever heard women bragging about their breasts....

Hey double standards apply often we may not like them, but they are a reality...

veru

Hey you got it flaunt it... And unfortunately Size matters to a few girls out there... like I said, I have bedded a few girls by bragging... ofcourse not on the internet but in real life.... They wanted to TRY it out... and I think they liked it... but thoose relationships never make it very far... By bragging about it I too get ubjectified, and the relationship quickly ends

As far as women BRAGGING about it... they do so every DAY... why do you think they wear thoose TIGHT shirts that drive us SO VERY crazy...

Sorry
Kostly

[BDSM_Tourguide]

Well, at least these women of yours were attracted to you for your brains, rather than some physical aspect. Assuming your brain is where nearly every other man's is.

The difference is: I have yet to see a woman sitting in a bar with eight of her friends, saying, "My fucking tits are so big, my boyfriend almost suffocated on them when I got on top last night." Then another woman saying, "Oh yeah? Well, my tits are so big that when my man does me doggy style, it sounds like an entire audience clapping."

I think it's because women lack two essential elements that men seem to have in abundance, especially online: Testosterone and stupidity.

If the first thing on my girlfriend's mind is the size of my dick, then she won't be my girlfriend for very damned long. However, if she wants to see my really big paddle, that's another thing altogether.

Originally posted by Kostly
Hey you got it flaunt it... And unfortunately Size matters to a few girls out there... like I said, I have bedded a few girls by bragging... ofcourse not on the internet but in real life.... They wanted to TRY it out... and I think they liked it... but thoose relationships never make it very far... By bragging about it I too get ubjectified, and the relationship quickly ends

As far as women BRAGGING about it... they do so every DAY... why do you think they wear thoose TIGHT shirts that drive us SO VERY crazy...

Sorry
Kostly

[veru_skjava]

OMG TG Sir ...
I love it!!!

*cracks up hard laughing*

[Steely]

If the first thing on my girlfriend's mind is the size of my dick, then she won't be my girlfriend for very damned long. However, if she wants to see my really big paddle, that's another thing altogether.

although less than eloquent, i agree with the sentiment perfectly!

[Kostly]

Originally posted by BDSM_Tourguide
Well, at least these women of yours were attracted to you for your brains, rather than some physical aspect. Assuming your brain is where nearly every other man's is.

I was only interested in their physical attributes at the time... So whats so wrong with us enjoying ourselves... We were safe, and I didnt catch any diseases, for I am clean now... and we didnt have a kid, so I guess it was nice We both got laid and never saw each other again... Its called a 1 night stand... and I havent had 2 many of these, but I would be lieing if I didnt say I enjoy it...

Now, Granted that I would Rather have a LTR, and that I am not looking for a 1 night stand... but thats wasnt the case back then...

The difference is: I have yet to see a woman sitting in a bar with eight of her friends, saying, "My fucking tits are so big, my boyfriend almost suffocated on them when I got on top last night." Then another woman saying, "Oh yeah? Well, my tits are so big that when my man does me doggy style, it sounds like an entire audience clapping."

No they dont have to say this... But women spend BILLIONS every year on things to make there breasts look bigger... WONDER BRA'S, PUSHUPS, WATER BRAS, SURGERY, etc...

Most men focus on the brests... ask any women with big boobs and she will often say... "Hey my Eyes are up here". Personally I dont care if a women has big boobies or not... I am happy with my womens intellect over her outword apearance.

With that said I am PROUD of my penis for it affords the women I love great pleasure... hell why shouldnt I be...

and BTW I am not going to Yahoo.com Women Power Forums and Bragging about it... Im on a BDSM forum, I stand by my original post for it was BOTH valid to the descusion and to the type of site this is.

I think it's because women lack two essential elements that men seem to have in abundance, especially online: Testosterone and stupidity.

Well I do have Testosterone, but I dont like the stupidity part... sounds like your insecure or Jellous... I guess thats ok... I am insecure about things too... I got a big nose and a thousand things not as perfect... But I dont call others stupid over my insecurity's! Sorry, but Jelousy is a horrible emotion...

If the first thing on my girlfriend's mind is the size of my dick, then she won't be my girlfriend for very damned long. However, if she wants to see my really big paddle, that's another thing altogether.[/font][/color]

I AGREE!!! 100% Except for the Paddle part... That was just a bad Joke... Also, if a girl Initially starts a dialog with me because of my penis size then she gets too know me, and eventually falls in love with me, then is this wrong?

Dispite what some women say, SIZE does matters, but only in a limited scope.. and my original post was ment to say this... so if you have a small penis, then use your tonge and it shouldnt matter to any girl. For the tounge is much better at pleasing a women then a Big Penis... I know cause I LOVE giving oral sex... and many women I have had say that is the best dispite everything...

But this is all MUTE, we are on a BDSM site, and a Big Penis doesnt make you a great Dom/sub... Just makes you different... I am the first one to agree with this... I try to be the best at it, but I know for certain that some are much more skilled then I am... The mind is the most important eroginance zone... So I can only hope that you can get over my inflatted penis ego to see the point that I so horribly made the first few times...


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With that said, I guess my hostility comes from you calling me stupid... I guess I am sorry that you feel so angry at me... I respected you for who you are, and not the size of your penis... but its obvious that you have judged me for this superficial reason... I guess your purpose was to say that I am a superficial person, but all I did was acknowledge and expose myself to the world.

[pam]

" but all I did was acknowledge myself and expose myself to the world"

I haven't seen this large penis exposed yet, may I?

*smart assed sub running fast*

[Kostly]

Originally posted by pam
" but all I did was acknowledge myself and expose myself to the world"

I haven't seen this large penis exposed yet, may I?

*smart assed sub running fast*

Hey, The Penis only gives in-person interviews

[pam]

Where do I fill out an application for an up close and personal interview?

[Kostly]

Originally posted by pam
Where do I fill out an application for an up close and personal interview?

We (me and my penis) provide a VERITY of submission (pun intended) methods, including FAX, EMAIL and INSTANT MESSAGE... followed by a reasonably long term online screaning process, blood tests, and then finally a scheduled interview.

[pam]

Damn, the things a girl's gotta do these days



BTW, this statement wins you lots of brownie points ... "Personally I dont care if a women has big boobies or not... I am happy with my womens intellect over her outword apearance."

Though the years I've found too many so-called dominant 'men' -- and I use that word loosely -- only want women with a certain height, weight, breast size, tush size, etc, and ignore the most important organ, the brain.

Then again, this topic *is* about size and I do like a rather large .. brain

[BDSM_Tourguide]

I didn't call you stupid. I called men stupid. They are. Ask any woman that's visitted an adult chat site.

I'm not insecure or jealous of you or anyone else. Well, maybe those people that can afford $20 million homes.

I don't give a damn about penis size. Personally, I don't see why anyone should, including women. There are so many more important things than the penis, like a great imagination and a great tongue.

My wife and I have some great sex and many times our genitals never contact one another.

I just don't get what the point of the importance this is to people. Maybe I should go measure myself and see where I stand in this debate.

Nah. Still not that insecure.

Originally posted by Kostly
With that said, I guess my hostility comes from you calling me stupid... I guess I am sorry that you feel so angry at me... I respected you for who you are, and not the size of your penis... but its obvious that you have judged me for this superficial reason... I guess your purpose was to say that I am a superficial person, but all I did was acknowledge and expose myself to the world.

[Kostly]

Go messure yourself... but not for this debat.. but because you should have fun with it

[Steely]

his penis, or the debate? i'm confused...

[BDSM_Tourguide]

Like I said, I have a quite satisfying sex life without knowing that tidbit of completely useless information.

[BDSM_Tourguide]

Cute.

Originally posted by Steely
his penis, or the debate? i'm confused...

[Steely]

odd duplicate... delete this at will

[pam]

Originally posted by Kostly
so then Size does matter

Brain size? Definitely

If I had a choice between an intelligent Dom and one with 10", it would be a no-brainer

Mind fucks are more fun, anyway

[BruceBoxer]

Sorry pam--gotta diagree--too many interrogation training sessions--HATE the mind fuck...love the regular though...and tit fucks, like those alot...I'm SO shallow

Originally posted by pam
Brain size? Definitely

If I had a choice between an intelligent Dom and one with 10", it would be a no-brainer

Mind fucks are more fun, anyway

[pam]

LOL interrogation scenes are my #1 favorite thing, I think -- because they're so much of a mind fuck

It's that fear factor ....

Nothing shallow about liking a tit fuck, though I think I'd prefer tit torture *blush*

[redEva]

well that was the battle for last few days, now finally the here it comes, response that is

If you got it, flaunt it! 110% Kostly

Yes i agree between 10 inches and no brain and average size with sizable brain – that is no brainer. But, while we are discussing, and lets be honest, if the brain, overall looks and attitude were equal and you were presented with choice between 5,5 and 9 inches – what would you chose (this is directed at women of course – just clarifying hehe)?

Unfortunately, i have to say, the penises are not advertised so openly in everyday life, well, on the other hand if you think about it, it all depends on the fashion, like – if tights or very tight designer jeans are hip, many a man has been known to enhance the bulge with socks – now how is that different from padded bra? The male underwear models are either kept aroused for the shoot, or are wearing cup (enhancer). Now, if size does not matter – why would they do that?

As for women, admit it or not – those with better looks have better chance in everything – from getting laid to getting job offer (and again the clarification – i am not talking about brain-dead blonde with boob job against average looking Harvard graduate!). Imagine this: you go to a party and see two women; one is just simply plain the other one has nice pair of boobs and is elegantly dressed to accentuate her assets. Both can carry intelligent witted conversation. Which one would you like to see for candle light dinner?

We all like to surround ourselves with beauty. Different people have different ideas about what beautiful is – thus some prefer DD (like me) and some modest B, some enjoy penis of a size that would not hurt back opening or make you gag, others like to see it in all its glory, like to feel stretched and filled to the tonsils (no matter where’s the entrance). All depends on taste and preference.

De gustibus non est disputandum !

But if there is time and place to discuss it, it is here – and to flaunt it too ! GO Kostly GO! (maybe i apply for that interview too )

[pam]

Originally posted by redEva
well that was the battle for last few days, now finally the here it comes, response that is


Yes i agree between 10 inches and no brain and average size with sizable brain – that is no brainer. But, while we are discussing, and lets be honest, if the brain, overall looks and attitude were equal and you were presented with choice between 5,5 and 9 inches – what would you chose (this is directed at women of course – just clarifying hehe)?

If I'm 100% honest, I'd say I'd take the 5.5" guy, only because in general, men who are 'smaller' according to society, try that much harder to be a better lover, and make up for their supposed lack of size by using their fingers and tongues to their advantage. Men with larger penii (and this is generalizing and not meant against Kostly) tend to be focused SO much on the size of their equipment that they ignore what can be done with a talented finger or tongue.


"would not hurt back opening or make you gag, others like to see it in all its glory, like to feel stretched and filled to the tonsils (no matter where’s the entrance)."

I LOVE to gag ... but can gag on 5.5" thrust in hard as easily as I can gag on 9" ... and that's why there are 9" flexible dildoes for that added assistance when needed

[redEva]

to each their own

[pam]

Yep, if we were all alike, life would be very boring indeed.

[Kostly]

The desire to please is in no way corrilated with penis size.,.. I mean take me... I love to please my women... I like giving 3 or 4 orgasims a session... after that... lets be honest womeen... your desire drops quicker then a rock...

Kostly

[Fox]

Okay, as a happy, healthy male, with all the requisite plumbing and good working order, and the offspring to prove it (notches hurt too much so I stopped adding them when I left my teen years behind) ...

Okay, the testosterone kicked in there for a brief moment. Back to the comment.

As a happy, healthy male with all the requisite plumbing, I must agree with Robin Williams, another happy, healhty male ...

"God equipped man with a brain and a penis, and only enough blood to make one work at a time ..."

or something like that.

It's not what you got, it's how well you use what you got that counts.

That's it, I'm outta here.

[sarah72]

The question here is, with all factors equal (brain, attitude, general looks, etc) and the choice of a 5” or an 8” cock (proportionally thick), what would one choose? Well, I would go for the 8” (and I think 9 out of 10 other women) would do the same. With the 5”, you get fucked, with the 8”, you also feel fucked!! And this becomes drastically more emphatic in other than vaginal penetration..

[redEva]

*tears of happiness in her eyes* YES! thank you, thank you, thank you Sarah – could not have put it better myself!