Quote Originally Posted by Sir_Russell View Post
A friend (male, unwilling American submissive) when finding out that I am a Dom asked how could that be. He said I was too calm, cool and laid-back to be a Dom. He had the vanilla world concept of a Dom, you know angry, violent and uncaring. I explained that when everything goes wrong and people are panicked then look for the person that everyone looks to for help and guidance that is the Dom. I explained that a Dom is one that has to be in control of himself by training and disposition.
oh Man Sir_Russel
that is very well written so I just had to quote it for effect.
I am also too calm, laid back blahblah .. for the stereotype Dom. Dont want to be the stereotype of anything either so.
just well put man.

got to love them oldschool Bettie Page pictures
the Bettie Page film was actually pretty decent. :