My Introduction

[ObsidianCaine]

Cool nick and very cool avatar, wolves always were one of my favorite animals.

[learningtopleez]

Erotic tells me I need to give a hello to the ladies and a handshake to the gents. I'm mostly having a look around for now and doing some reading.

Well...personally I would appreciate a little more than a hello! But we can start slow if ya want darlin'!!

~Ltp~

[GaryWilcox]

Erotic tells me I need to give a hello to the ladies and a handshake to the gents. I'm mostly having a look around for now and doing some reading.

Welcome Hunter!

If you're interested, I'll chase down some older articles you might like!

[charlestudor]

i'm new member, travel a lot. read a lot of bdsm library, especially F/m posts with emphasis on humiliation & cbt. never taken part in lifestyle, but am definately curious.

[erotic_nibbles]

Erotic tells me I need to give a hello to the ladies and a handshake to the gents. I'm mostly having a look around for now and doing some reading.

Welcome Baby! ............Hmmm....no need to scare everyone away with a huge, longgggggggggggggg winded introduction now ....lol

<----bouncing around like crazy...so happy you're here!

~~nibbles~~

P.S. Also, thank you so much to all my friends that have welcomed Hunter....you guys are the best!...that's why I wuvs ya

[erotic_nibbles]

A big WELCOME to:

Courtney, Valtros, and charlestudor

Great to have you here! .....so glad you joined us...lots of potentional friends here, along with a lot of information and advice.....jump in and have fun!

~~nibbles~~

[Hunter]

Cool nick and very cool avatar, wolves always were one of my favorite animals.

Thanks. I can't take credit for the avatar. Erotic picked that out.

Well...personally I would appreciate a little more than a hello! But we can start slow if ya want darlin'!!

LOL. You would huh? Darlin you were my first in here, doesn't that count as more?

Welcome Hunter!

If you're interested, I'll chase down some older articles you might like!

Thanks. I'll keep it in mind. Any articles on how to keep a bouncing nibbler in line?

Welcome Baby! ............Hmmm....no need to scare everyone away with a huge, longgggggggggggggg winded introduction now ....lol

<----bouncing around like crazy...so happy you're here!

~~nibbles~~

P.S. Also, thank you so much to all my friends that have welcomed Hunter....you guys are the best!...that's why I wuvs ya

*grabbing you as you bounce by* Baby if you're happy I'm happy.

[learningtopleez]

LOL. You would huh? Darlin you were my first in here, doesn't that count as more?

Of course it does darlin'! I see why nibbles is bouncing around so much now...you do know how to make a gal feel special!! I think I'm blushing!! But I like it!

[slo18]

hello A/all just found this place and i love it already

[Microwave0ven]

hey everyone, i'm new here, name's Ryan, but you can call me Mo (abbreviated Microwave0ven). Been reading bdsm library on and off for the past few years, and just found this board recently. I haven't actually DONE anything in the lifestyle yet, just read and think. Would be interested in doing some roleplaying (story-type writing) to discover more.

[Sir Lanceloth]

seems like i have forgotten to introduce myself here. I am a 26 year old dom. Until for approx a half year ago i had repressed all my "darker desires". It was not until i simply forced myself to search my own sexuality that i finally remembered all my desires (and there might be more in the dark corners of my mind). After making certain that this was what i wanted, i presented this to my gf. She freaked at first, but she is now more relaxed and have admitted having submissive tendencies (yep i am a very lucky man). So my situation atm, is that we both are new to this lifestyle, and are fumbling around not knowing where this will lead us.

[Miss E]

Hi there,

I started writing this post a while ago but then IE ate my post, so I am going to try and remember everything I wrote...

I'm a 30 year old, (usually technically competent) bisexual woman living in Australia.

I'm into BDSM on probably a way more casual basis than everyone else here! But I thought it would be better to let you all know rather than trying to fake being a hardcore BDSM-er... My interests (as far as BDSM goes) are submission, pain (again, not with the hardcore) bondage, humiliation, exhibitionism... there's probably some things I've forgotten too...

Partly the reason BDSM is less lifestyle for me is that between partners, workload, time and privacy, there's not always so much opportunity for me to practice it. Plus partner and I have differing (though often complementary) tastes, so it's often easier to go with the lowest common denominator, if you know what I mean...

Anyway, after all that blurb, I have a question... partner and I have finally found a fantasy/scene in common that we want to work out how to do (safely). In the past, with me being bi, we've had plenty of threesomes, but it's always been with friends, girlfriends etc... and now, we both want to play out this scene...

which is that...

partner procures someone to fuck/use me, whom I have never met (though, obviously, he will have vetted them - most likely a friend of his). Aside from the obvious safe sex stuff, and making sure someone's not a psycho, what precautions would you recommend? Would you use a contract? How do you go about negotiating stuff like this?

Anyway, that's all from me... looking forward to hearing people's suggestions!

Miss E
xx

[Chuckdom19]

(snip) In the past, with me being bi, we've had plenty of threesomes, but it's always been with friends, girlfriends etc... and now, we both want to play out this scene...

which is that...

partner procures someone to fuck/use me, whom I have never met (though, obviously, he will have vetted them - most likely a friend of his). Aside from the obvious safe sex stuff, and making sure someone's not a psycho, what precautions would you recommend? Would you use a contract? How do you go about negotiating stuff like this?

Anyway, that's all from me... looking forward to hearing people's suggestions!

Miss E
xx

Much wiser parties than I have posted instructions for such things elsewhere in the Forum.... just look around. But to toss in my personal opinion, I would use a contract-type thing. Pre-established limits, safeword, no broken bones, and if you remove an eye, you agree to give it back.

On a personal note, just for a lark, this is likely a fun idea. Now and again. Too frequently, and hurt feelings could divide nice people.

Hope you have fun, however it goes!

chksng19

[GaryWilcox]

Technically, I'm not a new member, but the last time I was here was back in June. Sooooo...I'm probably new to most of the people on this board. Here's a brief intro of me: I currently live in Austin and will graduate from college in May. I hope to get into a law school so I can defend myself if I ever get into trouble.

Welcome back!

[erotic_nibbles]

WELCOME TO:

slo18, Microwave0ven, Sir Lanceloth, and Miss E

We have a literal buffet of topics here and I hope you will all find the ones you like and post the views/questions/personal experiences you care to share ....I know at least 2 of you already have and I've enjoyed reading them

See ya around the Forum!

~~nibbles~~

[redbaron45]

Hello,

I'm an 18-year old university student in Victoria, BC. I have no real "hands-on" experience in the lifestyle yet, outside of dabbling in self-bondage. Given that, I don't think I can fully define myself as sub or dom, top or bottom without experience. I can say with some tentative idea that I'm mostly sub, however some of the aspects of being a dom appeal to me as well.

Now that the intro's out of the way, I just want to say that seeing a group so open in both ideas and interests has brought me out of my internet troll shell. Thank you!

I hope to learn much in the time to come!

[Goddess]

I just wanted to introduce myself. I was'nt sure which section I should put this in. I'm Goddess and I'm very new to this whole scene. As in very little experiance... not for lack of trying. For example I'm a sub and I did'nt realize that Goddess is'nt exactly a good username for a sub. I'm 25 years old.

I'm just interested in learning about this scene/lifestyle and I'd just like to meet some people, learn what I can and go from there. Maybe meet a dom. Anything anyone wants to share I'd love to hear.

[sarah(slave)]

Hi goddness and welcome if your a submissive you should check out the task forums its a good place to start from and get to know others good luck and injoy,
sarah

[Curiosity21]

Hi! I'm totally new at all of this so any help would be appreciated. About me . . . I like almost anything artsy and creative but I have very little talent *sigh* and I am way to curious for my own good (hence the name). I love to talk, so hopefully someone will reply.

[jabberrocky]

Hi all, I'm new at this, and would like to find a Mistriss to show me the ropes.
I'm 49 years old, and still wanting to learn, been afraid all my life to be open, but never too late to start. I'm open to a lot of things, hope to meet a lot of new friends on here. I live in Arizona, and would be willing to travel short distance to meet, but want to talk on line first.

Jabberrocky

[Goddess]

Hi goddness and welcome if your a submissive you should check out the task forums its a good place to start from and get to know others good luck and injoy,
sarah

Hi Sarah Thank you for the welcome. I took your advice and checked out the dungeon. I've registered but have'nt signed up for any courses yet. But I've learned alot sofar. Thank you.

[erotic_nibbles]

WELCOME TO:

redbaron45, Goddess, sarah(slave), Curiosity21, and jabberrocky

New people!...Woohoo...I love new people .....I hope you all jump right in and start posting....it's a pretty friendly bunch here and we all love to share our thoughts and lives with each other

Goddess...I think your name is lovely

sarah(slave)...I'm not sure if you're new or not from what you posted...but you're new to me...so wanted to say hi

~~nibbles~~

[orchidsoul]

Figured it's time to introduce myself instead of continually being a "lurker"! I discovered this site almost a year ago and have been interested in the forums ever since. You're all an amazing group of people that I am very thankful for being able to learn from.
I am learning about myself and don't necessarily know that I belong in a BDSM arena per se, but certain aspects I am very intrigued by even though my actual experience is limited. Part of why I am not sure about it all is that I can't fathom most of it happening to me... but something keeps me thinking about it all.

Thanks for everyone's openness and honesty on this site. I know I am far from the first lurker, and sure won't be the last, but your experiences are immensely helpful in our understanding of our own ideas and feelings.

[GaryWilcox]

Thanks for everyone's openness and honesty on this site. I know I am far from the first lurker, and sure won't be the last, but your experiences are immensely helpful in our understanding of our own ideas and feelings.

Welcome, orchidsoul!

[slavelucy]

Figured it's time to introduce myself instead of continually being a "lurker"! I discovered this site almost a year ago and have been interested in the forums ever since. You're all an amazing group of people that I am very thankful for being able to learn from.
I am learning about myself and don't necessarily know that I belong in a BDSM arena per se, but certain aspects I am very intrigued by even though my actual experience is limited. Part of why I am not sure about it all is that I can't fathom most of it happening to me... but something keeps me thinking about it all.

Thanks for everyone's openness and honesty on this site. I know I am far from the first lurker, and sure won't be the last, but your experiences are immensely helpful in our understanding of our own ideas and feelings.

orchidsoul, i just wanted to say how much your intro made me smile, it's lovely, and it's always nice to know that the forum and people who share themselves in it are appreciated by people who read them. Welcome to the forums!

sl

[orchidsoul]

Thank you GaryWilcox and slavelucy for the warm welcome You are particularly two of the many from whom I continue to learn.

[erotic_nibbles]

Figured it's time to introduce myself instead of continually being a "lurker"! I discovered this site almost a year ago and have been interested in the forums ever since. You're all an amazing group of people that I am very thankful for being able to learn from.
I am learning about myself and don't necessarily know that I belong in a BDSM arena per se, but certain aspects I am very intrigued by even though my actual experience is limited. Part of why I am not sure about it all is that I can't fathom most of it happening to me... but something keeps me thinking about it all.

Thanks for everyone's openness and honesty on this site. I know I am far from the first lurker, and sure won't be the last, but your experiences are immensely helpful in our understanding of our own ideas and feelings.

Hey orchidsoul ....love your name....welcome to the Forums....I hope you come to enjoy it here as much as I do.....great place to hang out and make friends!

~~nibbles~~

[orchidsoul]

thank you erotic_nibbles
For a brief moment (TG can attest) I was going to change the name, but changed my mind on changing... so thanks for liking it too and I love yours!

[Aeneas]

I would just like to extend a warm welcome to all the newest members! I would particularily like to welcome all the new members who are submissive. I know, by your very nature, it takes a certain amount of courage, even using an alias, to take that big step and opening up to (literally) the world. You have already taken one of your first big decisions by introducing yourselves. Please remember more than anything else, YOU ARE NOT ALONE! We all learn from each other, and nobody knows it all. I dare say even "The Divine Marquis" would enjoy reading and contributing to our forums. As one of the greatest philosophers of all time (Winnie the Pooh) once said, "Not one of us is as smart as all of us."

[tiemeupnow]

I am new here and after reading some of the posts I can tell that I will learn alot. I only had fantasies about most of this kind of stuff until I met my husband. He too never had someone he could trust with his wild side until me. So I want to learn as much as possible because after years of research on bondage he seems to be an expert.
I am in Florida and right now I am mostly submissive. I want to be dominant though. I can't seem to break through the thought of hurting him. I am always asking him if he is comfy and that kind of isn't what I want to do. Any suggestions will be great.
Thanks for listening........ :help: