Quote Originally Posted by erotic_nibbles
what you said is very much like my situation before I came here.....my bf is also very naturally dominant in a wonderful protective/possessive way.....and I wanted it to be more BDSM & D/s.....so after having a few little breakthroughs in our relationship towards that, I talked to him about this site and showed it to him....not too long ago I talked him into letting me register him.....he's been here for a little while now and our relationship has been changing in lots of good ways ever since...so good luck with moving your relationship more into BDSM....from experience coming to this site is a good start
Thanks for the welcome, good to be here

Just to put things in a bit of context, I'm looking to make my bf more dominant, but I want to keep him as a bf and not as a Master. I'm not the most emotionally-stable type, and I don't think my self-esteem could handle being someone's slave! But I do want to scene with him every now and then, so I'm just trying to figure out where on the scale of things I want us to end up, and then work on taking us there.

Anyways, like I said, thanks for the welcome... I'll try not to turn into a lurker, but I can't make any promises I'm afraid - being inexperienced I don't have that much to say. See yous all around!