Rape Scenes

[Subfortraining]

The problem I see here is that if you think it is the friend, you might actually undergo a rape. the key word in a rape fantasy is fantasy. You are looking for a way to make it seem real, when what you want to do is make it a fantasy. Do not worry about knowing it is him, unless you really want to be raped. It will be much better for both of you if you know about everything in advance, and can relax.

I think part of me does want it to be a rape because i know how willing i am other wise and i guess because we haven't really done a whole lot of role play and what we have done i haven't been good at as far as getting myself into the fantacy. its all enjoyable but i just go with the flow instead of acting out in which ever way i should (i.e. scared, helpless,younger,)

[Rhabbi]

I think part of me does want it to be a rape because i know how willing i am other wise and i guess because we haven't really done a whole lot of role play and what we have done i haven't been good at as far as getting myself into the fantacy. its all enjoyable but i just go with the flow instead of acting out in which ever way i should (i.e. scared, helpless,younger,)

Not everyone can role play, it takes practice. As for rape, trust me, it might seem fun in your head, but for real it would be no fun at all. If you get hurt or scared during a rp you can stop, that does not happen in rape.

[snowflake]

hi subfortraining,,, this is a really hard topic for me as i have been raped and have had fantasies about role play even after not having anything to do with the real rape and some of the fantasies have been carried out...

Rhabbi is right Rape is not fun... it has to be one of the worst things that could happen to anyone so you have to be very careful not to cross the line.. i would never wish real rape on anyone..

As far as one of Chris's friends helping out.. yep that would be great.. but it has to be someone you totally trust... that you could honestly say you feel safe with at all times.. and you have known for a very long time... You don't want just any friend cause that would not be safe play... Even if Chris is there and it isn't someone safe he could lose control of the scene and then you would be raped.. and that hun i would hope would never happen to you...

When my Master did it he used two other Doms that we had known for a very long time.... I wasn't expecting it as my Master had acted as if he were mad.. tied me to the bed bind folded and gagged me... then left the house to go for a beer.. 5 mins later two others were on top of me and he was no where in sight.. They used gloves so i could not feel their touch the same and said not a word...to be honest i was scared... and they pushed me to every limit and a touch over to get the point across but not to far that it would hurt me... this went on over a hole night ... to make it worse when Master came home they made it soudn like they had tied him down as well.. which only made it seem more real...

But they knew what i liked and such as my Master had asked me to write a story about what i would like to happen 2 months before and we had also agreed on my limits.. Then the subject was dropped..

So that night it happened i had no clue what was going on.. a truly thought i was being raped.. Thank goodness i wasn't...

Real rape does damage to you emotionally and not just physically.. 20 yrs later i am still afraid to go out alone at night .. i don't go where it don't know people by my self .. and to be honest i don't think i will ever get over it... So you really have to make sure that you don't get yourself in a positon that it can turn into real rape.. Please be careful hun..

i hope this helps hun

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snowflake

[Subfortraining]

I am soo very saddened to hear that i do know that in real life it isn't any fun and leaves perminate damaging scares. I hope you all the best at a happy life. As for having one of Chris's friends help out i was thinking only in the very begining of tieing and blindfolding and then chris would take over from there i don't think Chris in any way could let another man touch me it would drive him crazy.


In my head at the time it was happening it wouldn't be a rp but because it would be Chris that is doing it and he knows my limits and my reactions i don't think it would be as tramatic as a real rape after it was done. but then again its just me thinkin again.

I like the idea of sharing the stories with him to make it just like you had imagined it.

[snowflake]

I realize that Chris would be the only one doing the touching but still you need to trust this friend casue as soon as oyu are tied down Crhis will be the only one to protect you.. and you never know this guy may get turned on by the looks of you helpless.. If you don't know him bad thigs could happen

by the way hun thank you ... most of the scares have faded it has been a very long time but still it effects 35 years later... But yes i ahve ahd some happiness in my life...

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snowflake

[Subfortraining]

that is really great to hear. I didn't even really think of that as a possiblity but now as you have put it that way, it could be and it could turn out very bad.

[snowflake]

i am glad you understand hun i would feel terrible if it happened in a bad way... fantasy should be fun and not turn into a horror scene...

best of luck if you want to talk more you can always pm me...

Be safe.. and enjoy

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snowflake