Like lucy, I've read your post with interest. Can't offer favourite tricks or treats... what this thread needs is input from people who aren't as ignorant about online D/s as I am. I find those threads that give glimpses of relationships with online communication interesting, because they actually show examples.

My guess is: There are probably heaps and lots of online D/s options that work for either sex.

Okay, one idea that is more a mental thing.....Who came up with the idea to call your pet 'pet'? Maybe an assignment you could give him is to write a text telling you what it means to him be called 'pet' by Mistress Jade. Which connotations this word has for him and how he feels about them. To be published here if you approve of the text. Also, if it pleases you, it would be interesting if you added a few words on what this form of address means to you. It's great to have a glimpse of both sides of the relationship.