Perhaps the reason one doesn't hear much about serving coffee, or cleaning the floor, etc, is because of how people look at it?

I mean if you look at the help threads... Making a cup of coffee, is generally a simpler task, and much easier to obtain instructions about. While performing the perfect blowjob... well you can't call momma and ask her how to do that. How to wield a cat or a single tail, is equally hard ot get info on, so maybe, that's why they get brought up so often?

I've seen at least a few threads on emotional/mental submission... it's definitely out there and part of it.

I personally.. equally enjoy the pleased contentment when i've brought coffee, cooked breakfast, and given a good back rub to start the day for my man, as well as the blissful look when i finish a good BJ or some other form of carnal pleasure.

And i'd definitely have to say i myself have recently learned quite a bit about submissive feelings... at work! My boss is an older lady, 5'4-5'5 ish, thin, not the most attractive woman but not nasty to look at. And multiple times a day i feel like i should drop to my knees and address her as Mistress.. and i have plenty of day dreams (cleaning hotel rooms really opens up the mind to allow time for such things) about such submissive acts... yet sex never even comes close to entering my mind. (and im one of the more "brazen slut who likes to get fucked six ways from Sunday in every kinky way possible" types. lol)

So the more mental D/s is definitely out there, even among the stereotype painsluts... maybe just not talked about by those that are such adrenaline junkies??


Teni