Quote Originally Posted by truckinnhorsin
So the more mental D/s is definitely out there, even among the stereotype painsluts... maybe just not talked about by those that are such adrenaline junkies??
That's a great way of putting it, well said.

Wontworry loved it when i cooked for him and always loves it when i want things (even the smallest and most non sexual of things) to be 'right' for him, it's a natural part of submission IMO (which is possibly another reason why it isn't talked about much, surely no sub would just fling a shoddily made cup of tea in their doms general direction!), but equally as important to any dominant. It most certainly doesn't de-value someone taking pain for you or doing things in a more sexual arena though.

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