A very valid point TG. And one that is easily overlooked by us all, including myself.

As much as I enjoy securing and flogging Kats (and she enjoys it as well), and having great sex with her. The other things that she brings to our relationship are just as or maybe even more important. The coffee brought to me first thing in the morning, the breakfast made the way I like it. All of the many little gestures of her love and submission that she makes on a daily basis are what helps make our relationship so wonderfull. ( She even gets the kind of KFC that I like instead of the one that she prefers.)

I am glad that you stated it so clearly.