
Originally Posted by
John56
I would also like to answer this.
I am a Dom and I am a man. A sensitive, sometimes terrified, sometimes wrong-headed, often sad, normal man. As most heros and warriors are, normal men and women in extraordinary circumstances.
The soldier who is so scared he (or she) can't sit still and leaps into the battle and leads the charge that saves the day.
The single mom that does every thing she can and sacrifices daily to provide for her children.
The fireman that heads into a burning building to save a young child.
The woman or man who sits down with her lover and opens themselves to tell their partner exactly what they need.
These are the true heroes, the true warriors and they are definitely NOT sheep. And we Are ALL capable of that heroism. We ALL do it every day.
And no true warrior (soldier or not) is HOPING the wolf comes to the door. No sane person WANTS the wolf at your door.
True Doms/Dommes are simply men and women who are respectful and loving to their partners and want to give them what they deserve.
I don't know every dom on this forum, but some of the heroes I am aware of are:
Tessa's DD who, in simply wanting with all his heart to provide happiness for the wife he loves, went the extra mile to learn and use his Dominant talents. That is a hero.
Fae's Selash, is another one. He is young and worries he is not experienced enough yet. But he listens and he learns and he does seem to know innately that the most important thing for a young dom/domme to know is Love and Respect, and he has that in droves.
Sorry for going on and on. Just needed to say this.