Today after spending the last two years with a friend who was the first to recongize my submissive nature.

After getting to know him, dinner, being friends, playing sometimes, and spending a great deal of time just talking, (his choice/not mine) he ask if I wanted to come to his house for dinner. I almost had to reboot my computer.
I was in total shock.

He then proceeded to ask if I wanted it to be social or would I want to submit to him. After the last two years, I had thought we would just remain friends and nothing more.

I ask him in what ways did he want me to submit as I thought I always had. I told him I had always tryed to please him in everyway possible and what had he meant. He said I hadn't and would I help clean and cook for him. I told him of course I would, it had always been my goal to serve him. Until today when he ask me to serve him in a domestic way, I had always thought of submission in a sexual way.

Tonight I come home and find this thread, and in my journey it was a total revelation, that being submissive means a lot things, and not just SEX!!!

This revelation has made me think twice of his request for me to be his sub puts a whole new light on things, because yes I want to serve him, nothing would make me happier. When all along I thought he wanted sex and that is not what it was at all. Of course the sex isn't bad and is a perk, but it isn't the end all of how our relationship has devoloped.

I thought we would never move past the friends part until today when this has all come together for me. I need to find my cleaning smock, and cooking apron, and get started.

This has been a very enlighting day for me.

Thanks

T