Sex, Sex, Sex... It's All About the Sex

[GaryWilcox]

With the very greatest of respect, says who? You? Surely it depends on the submissive? Some subs really don't like giving head and hence to do so in a thoughtful, completely selfless way is as beautiful (or, to use your terms effecting her deeply, in a mental sense) as someone delicately and thoughtfully serving you a drink.

You know...

Coffee's great. I don't drink it myself, mind you-- but, by way of example, I think sweet iced tea is the best stuff in the world.

And while it's perfectly beautiful for a sub to come to my home, make the best sweet iced tea in the world, and then serve it to me, it really couldn't possibly compare with the act of accepting any part of my body in to hers to please me.

Okay, I'm straying from the point a little, but not entirely. While D/s has a nonsexual underbelly, involving it in sexuality opens it up (and includes it) as part of sexual nature. As I said earlier, human sexuality has complexities of intellect and ideas of desire that far outweigh that of animals. We think too much.

In honesty, we don't call the relationship of a mother and a child D/s because there's an unhealthy sexual connotation there. While D/s can mean so much more than sex, once D/s in introduced into a sex life, it tends to mean that sexuality is very D/s-centric from then on.

So, to put it simply, D/s may not be all about sex, but try telling sex that.

Thanks for reading!