Right, OK. Thought I would just read this thread to see where it was going, but now I have to jump in.

Originally posted by ProjectEuropa
The difference as to when a partner serves me a drink (in one of her less feisty moods) as a submissive act, is the sexual connotation that I can take more and she would be willing to give more than a drink. However I tend to make the drinks because the tea I'm usually served up with is like dishwater and I know she really hasn't got the skill to improve because she hates making tea. I would imagine it would be similar for a BJ, if she really doesn't like it, would it be any good and would I then want it or would I want it just because I could make her do it?
Right! What happens when, a sub isn't "into it", and cannot bring the love and passion into the act they are performing? Do the Dom's care, and get off anyway, based on this control level? Or, do they get turned off whenever a sub is less than enthusiastic?

In reference to the beginning of this chat, a sub usually gets into the act of submission, whatever it is, in order to please and serve the Dom. Does that sub require more training (brainwashing) in order to be more in tune with the Master's wishes, in the case of attempting to do something they hate doing?

Originally posted by MsTerrry
I would feel content knowing that he was enjoying it. Servitude is what would please me because it would please my Master.
So, if a sub has issues with a Dom's (harmless) desires, does that "not a good sub make"?