I guess that's true, but wouldn't you say that it's also important to know what YOU personally like before you go into any relationship? That way there's no room for emotional or physiological damange. (dang, I can't spell today!)

Of course, that's only my opinion and only one of zillions, I'm sure.

Although, I must admit that the idea of a big dominating me, as long as I know that he loves me (and he doesn't leave scars or draw blood) is extremely titillating. I guess my biggest fantasy has always been to be 'owned' by someone and expected to trust them, no matter what. The idea of eating at a man's feet after he's fed me, having him feed me scraps/tidbits is equally exciting. Of course I also have more interesting fantasies, like bathing my lover and then drying him off with my tongue.....

Whoa! DOWN, girl!

Lord, this place is bringing out the real me, that's for sure!