Anyway back on topic...
Quote Originally Posted by Sir Lanceloth
the difficulty in my relationship is simply that my gf hasnt used her safeword yet, it makes me a bit worried whether she will have the courage to do so when neccesary.
Hmm well, that could present a difficulty, but maybe it's not.

Anyway, I don't really see how you could determine this, unless you deliberately create a situation where you want her to use her safeword. But this could be a very doubtful undertaking, and she might dislike being 'tested' like that.