I was just rereading everything that I've seen written out here and it made me see that to please a dominant I don't need to have sex, although to a point I knew that is true because of personal issues that I've described before its hard for me to have sex but with a dominant I surrender my all to him...or as much as I can from within. I believe true submission comes from the mind and soul not the pussy although once a dom has the mind and soul completely he can have the body.....but at times part of the body finds it harder to submit than other sides. So in my eyes sex is not needed for me to submit and I know with anyone it would take me a very long time for me to submit that although for a dom it would be more likely for me to submit in other ways.