I dont know if this is the actual stat but I do know its close something along the lines of 54% of amrican women are size 14 or larger but being a pluse size doesnt mean u are ugly marilin monroe was a size 14 betty page was a large woman and they are both still concindered two of the greatest sex simbols of all time. Fat doesnt mean ugly, and whats ugly to one person isnt to another.
as for personality not showing though online I dont believe that, I think that its a matter of time, if its someone u are concidering meeting, its someone u have talked to for a long time if it isnt then u arnt being safe. when u talk to someone for a year or so I feel like u can get pretty good idea of there personality. but again all of this is just my opinion take it as u will