I've had many friends who know I am interested in BDSM come up to me asking me to teach them how to be a dominant...and I keep telling them its not something that I can teach you....lol, then I hear alot tell me what you do for dom...and I just say thats not the real deal,sorry. In my mind its like, I am not experienced enough to tell anyone what to do....they either have it in them or they don't. It annoys me how many guys think being a submissive means that I am an easy lay which I am now,lol