Hi zig!
I agree with TG in that you should definitely let them both know that you do not want to be exclusive with just one partner right now. As long as you're honest, then no one can claim you lied to them. It could cause major problems down the road if you are not honest. Also, if you prefer one over the other (that sounds a bit naughty...lol), then just tell the one you don't prefer that you no longer want to see him. Especially if it's the guy who ignored you for awhile. At least you would have an honest reason to give him. Good luck and play safe! Most of all...have fun! Hope this helps a bit!

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~ltp~