Quote Originally Posted by BDSM_Tourguide
I don't think that's entirely accurate. I believe a real dominant shouldn't have to tame or break a submissive. The submissive should have a desire to serve and obey in the first place.
I had every desire to serve and obey...well maybe not obey..but submit to someone who I felt a connection with and who portrayed himself as "someone that wanted an online sub only to grow in trust with." His words, not mine. But when someone lies to you not just once, but twice about who they are and what they expect, how is the sub to know the correct way to serve him that will please him the most?? This subs desire to please was there, but I was only deceived, and if I remember correctly TG...you yourself have said that honesty in any relationship is most important. So why have you changed your mind? Or do you feel that a sub should serve and obey someone who lies to her/him? Just curious here, as I am trying to learn. Thanks.

~ltp~