To set the record straight

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So are you saying that I was disobedient in this situation? Or that I resisted submitting to sirken?

No. I think you were right to get out of the relationship. Something smelled bad about it from the beginning and you probably did better by not having a relationship with him in the first place. This statement and sequence has nothing to do with your relationship to SirKen. The sequence of events leading up to my statement about submissives not having to be tamed are as follows:

He once told me that several Doms on this site told him they felt I could never be tamed.

Any real Dom would not wish to "tame" or "break" a submissive.

I believe a real dominant shouldn't have to tame or break a submissive.

As you can see, I was never mentioning your relationship specifically, but I was referring to the fact that people seemed to think you could never be tamed. My opinion has always been that a submissive will submit because she enjoys to submit, not because she needs someone to tame her spirit or whatever. I don't know if that's true of you or not, because I don't really know you very well, or at all really. It is just my opinion. In fact, it's an opinion that has been stated in my seven types of internet submissive bit that I wrote a few months back.

As for your relationship specifically: I don't think anyone should have to be subjected to internet phonies. They give the net the reputation it already has, and I think that's a bad thing.