Quote Originally Posted by BDSM_Tourguide
A good dominant will ask why the submissive is refusing to obey his requests. Most good submissives will have a reasonable answer handy (ie "I'm on my period," "My dad died," or "I cut off my foot and had to have it sown back on.")
Anyway, I hope this helps to explain a little better. I hope I haven't thoroughly hijacked the thread. If so, then I'm sorry.
I don't think you hijacked the thread at all as you had some very important things to say and things I wasn't aware of...so thanks! But I just have to say to ya TG...when I read the line above about the reasons a sub might have for disobeying...I thought i would laugh my ass off!! Really funny stuff there!

~ltp~