TG - Why don't you tell us what you really think?

Seriously, excellent points, harsh or should I say firm, but excellent.

Alura - while what you are spouting is on the opposite end of the spectrum, there is a place for those of us in-between.

All -

To reside in a place of having no expectations is for all intents impossible. Our minds are constantly working overtime and our imaginations set up hopes, dreams, and desires.

For me, I find it best to go after those things and its even better when I get to share them with friends, family and my lifemate.

While I think a "new" dom can cause just as much harm as an "old" one, the harm can be minimized if both parties communicate frequently and often.

I wonder if the statics of subs versus doms match the working world. I've observed that for every leader there are between 2-11 followers. There are very few alpha males or females in any working group. Nature at her finest? Hmmmm......