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[JohnZ]

Why is it that there are a lot of Dom's that demand that there sub does not cum - that they have to ask permission - that they have limit that explosive part of their excitement.

Think about it - if you demand that - you demand that they have control -

think about that for a moment - you are teaching - control to a sub.


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Isn't it the Dom's gift to lead and to guide? - Yes -- of course it is - but to manipulate his submissive so that she (or he) does cum - isn't that taking control of the sub? - Is not the cumming evidence of your control over the other?

Ok OK OK -- I know the other side of the argument is that the sub must learn restraint and obedience - but are their not better tasks to do that - something that has to do with the WILL - and not with the physical reaction? -

OK -- now there is a certain ecstasy in keeping some one at the edge for a while - but again - do you think it is the sub's job -to keep THEMSELVES at that edge - of course not -- it is the Dom - the one that is suppose to be in control!!

So I say CUM - cum often -- enjoy - embrace - let me know when I am the one that made you cum! - that would PLEASE me - to know that I could touch you that way --

no permission needed