do not for a minute believe that you can not be tracked ----there are programs out there that can do things you would not believe ----Never give your name or the town you live in -----that makes things simple as looking in the phone book for that town

also watch for yahoo and hotmail as they have directories ---watch what you put in your profiles ----when you open these accounts ----it may be more than you want others to know -----

Be sure of who you are trusting ---the internet is full of crazies not just Doms but subs also ----

Keep copies of all your PMs ---IMs and emails -----you may need to prove something later ---I speak from a sad experience -----

my main advise is if you and your husband are looking into this is do it together not just one of you on line-----A good Dom is going to care for you and that can lead to falling in love with you----that is not really good for a marriage ----someone usually gets hurt ----