Hello every one,
I am a fifty-year-old woman, who luckily waited and found her sub self and married her Dom. We are now trying to meld real life and bdsm. Sometimes easy, sometimes hard. I was an over the road truck driver, and looking to kill some waiting time, placed an add in a bdsm format. We connected and started email training. Those were such hot times; I would curse the Gods when I couldn't get Internet connection via my cell phone. Wyoming and Montana were the worst. We have been D/s for about five years . I got a load into his area and we met about 3 or 4 months after our first contact. We both were not looking for marriage, but it worked into it. We both had already exposed our kink to each other, and along with the D/s need to know so much about each other, we already had the honesty issue covered. One thing about this lifestyle, it takes you down to the basics. You can't fake being on your hands and knee's getting your ass beat. It hurts. But oh my there is that total perverted mindset that makes those feelings of pain turn to lust.

I am, in real life, a woman who takes control and does what needs to be done, so getting the sub out of me can be a chore. Hence the r/l vs D/s struggles. We are doing well, thanks to the communication the D/s lifestyle demands. It transfers over to our r/l and we would not have come this far without it.

I quilt, read books, redecorate the house, and garden for hobbies. In my almost non-existent free time.

I have read and enjoyed many of your forums. I must tell slave Lucy I just loved reading about her r/l D/s meeting. I brought back so many of my memories of that wonderful rush of pain pleasure and early meeting. There is that unknown quality as you first venture into uncharted waters with another person. But I would not change things now because there is that trust that comes with time.

Thank you for a wonderful format and I will be lurking in the dark corners, and maybe sometime, I will contribute.

Jasmine