I picked dominance/obedience, the pleasure and excitement I get from me wanting to obey and/or being made to obey turns me into a wet slut. I enjoy the feeling of being ordered to do things that are not within the sexual "norms”; I like being a slut to Him and only Him. I also like to fight and laugh during play. Hence the uppity bottom. I love it when he wraps my long hair around his hand and makes me do what he wants, whether its to suck his cock, get ready to go somewhere, or throw me down on the bed, pull down my jeans and give me a hard hand spanking, the paddle, the crop, or the whip (or all of the above hehe ). I enjoy the other aspects of BDSM, but nothing gets me wetter faster than being dominated.