Jade,

You honor us with another lesson learned and much wisdom in your post.

I, too, believe that a dom/domme should experience - as much as they can - what they want their subs to experience.

Let's face it, a male dom isn't going to be able to test a product for clits on himself. :-)

However, if he wants to use the evil steel cane on my butt, he can have it used on his first, anytime! :-[

So mini-pain slut versus big pain slut. There is a big difference.
I like enough pain to add spice to the play, but the marks, pain, etc, need to go away when the playtime is over. And I do mean the pain, not that nice tingling feeling that you keep with you cause you've been all sensitized.

Just looking at the zipper makes me want to run and hide.

You are so brave!

Ruby
XXX 000