the first thing that i would like to say is take it one thing a a time. if she is experanced as you say she will walk you thru it as we say just act like it is the first date that it is. don't try and rush things. if things don't go as you planned at least make sure that you leave open a second date. some other things are where are you going to meet? where are you going after that? is dinner or lunch involved? some of the things to think about. more or less just think of it as a first date with a real chance of sex at the end with some whipping as foreplay. good luck. P.S. post here to let us know how it goes.