Ruby, let me first say that this is all fantasy for me, a fantasy that I imagine myself in. Secondly, yes, it is blackmail! It's a guy blackmailing a woman into humiliating herself. Humiliation is never consensual unless it's someone who is into humiliation and then I have to wonder if it's more exciting than humiliating for her or him.

Humiliation is something that is "unwanted" not something that you get excited by. I know there are masters and subs that do the "humiliation" thing but quite frankly I don't get it. That's ok though, cause it isn't my fantasy.

This isn't a story I'm in the midst of writing, it was just an example of what I think of as "true humiliation". I guess I posted this because I get so frustrated reading stories that start off with a humiliation theme and suddenly the woman is enjoying it. Maybe my fantasies are sick, but they are more true to life than most of the stories I read.

Thanks to those who understood what I was saying.