Hi all, His_pita wanted me to join the site, and I'm already glad I have! For a new Dom like me, and a new sub like her, the place is a treasure trove of information and hints ... and not a little bit of support for dealing with all the anxieties I've been wondering how to handle, both hers and mine.

After several years of reading about BDSM and wondering about the incredible range of tastes and ideas, I'm just beginining to see why it's necessary to let your tastes and limits evolve rather than setting things in stone too early.

And I can't really imagine, as intense as our cyber life has been, what it will be like to meet in person.

If I'm quiet, except for a lot of questions, you'll understand why. Thanks for the resource and community!