I am here to have fun and meet people. I hope to build, embrace and enjoy long term relationships on any level of about any kind. A place where I could find intelligent, blunt, open and expressive like minded adults who might share many of the same interests I have. If that don’t work, if this isn’t it, I can always go check out the porn.

I have had an interest in controlling a partner or another with a partner for longer than I can remember. The trust and ability a partner has to submit to an S&M session with you must far outweigh the trust, love and compassion one would have in a vanilla marriage. I've been trying to imagine for too long.

I am curious if I should leave a working but not successful 8 year relationship to pursue casual short term relationships in S&M and soak up real life experience to introduce myself to what I have been missing. The relationship as a whole seems more rewarding, pleasing, exciting and intimate. I hope to find some information here.