Congratulations and I hope everything goes as you wish.

But....regardless of how wonderful he seems, and how much you trust him, please, please do follow the advice on safe calls (note plural). The more experienced your prospective Dom is, the more he will support, or even insist on you having them. It is not a sign of you not trusting him. It is a sign that you both care about your safety.

Also - please choose the person who is going to be making the calls with care. Are they the sort of person, who if things do go wrong, will be able to escalate the situation as appropriate, or will they just sit there and worry?

We really are pleased for you, and are not throwing any doubts onto your prospective Dom, just talking good sense, both for you and any others who might read this thread and be in the same position. If you are not sure about how safe calls work, please PM some of the people here who have been actively involved in the lifestyle for sometime, or have a look at the thread I am about to start...

Hope you have a wonderful time, and each of your calls are oozing with 'ohhhhhh he is wonderful'.

cariad