I always wondered why BDSM lit has to be erotic in nature... I mean, couldnt it be a story of discovery and love rather then spanking material?

In fact I am writing a story based on my personal experiances. Unfortunately I am not quite the quality writer that I wish I could be at times... So It takes me allot of time, and I dont expect people will go crazy for it... but it helps me sort out my own feelings, so.,...