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    I would like to ask a question on safe calls if I may.
    Hypothetically speaking for now, because I wouldn't do it, but have had offers before to meet, and not just for a coffee.

    I have been befriended by Doms, and have known them for more than a year, I know what they look like and am comfortable in talking with them.

    I have been offered to meet for a play session, and while the offers are appealing and tempting, I cannot do so.

    That got me to thinking about safe calls, I don't know anyone well enough to ask or feel comfortable in asking.
    I can't use my friends, or my family, that would raise a lot of questions that I could not answer for them.
    What does one do if there is no opportunity for a safe call? Is there any other methods that one can use?

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    Quote Originally Posted by cadence View Post
    I would like to ask a question on safe calls if I may.
    Hypothetically speaking for now, because I wouldn't do it, but have had offers before to meet, and not just for a coffee.

    I have been befriended by Doms, and have known them for more than a year, I know what they look like and am comfortable in talking with them.

    I have been offered to meet for a play session, and while the offers are appealing and tempting, I cannot do so.

    That got me to thinking about safe calls, I don't know anyone well enough to ask or feel comfortable in asking.
    I can't use my friends, or my family, that would raise a lot of questions that I could not answer for them.
    What does one do if there is no opportunity for a safe call? Is there any other methods that one can use?
    Use someone from the forum. Or find your local munch group, make a connection with a couple of the women, and use them.

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    I'm pro safe calls in general, but to the same degree you would have one for any first time social encounter...

    I don't believe there is a higher proportional risk to meeting someone from the Net. But then I've said that before.
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    Quote Originally Posted by cadence View Post
    I would like to ask a question on safe calls if I may.
    Hypothetically speaking for now, because I wouldn't do it, but have had offers before to meet, and not just for a coffee.

    I have been befriended by Doms, and have known them for more than a year, I know what they look like and am comfortable in talking with them.

    I have been offered to meet for a play session, and while the offers are appealing and tempting, I cannot do so.

    That got me to thinking about safe calls, I don't know anyone well enough to ask or feel comfortable in asking.
    I can't use my friends, or my family, that would raise a lot of questions that I could not answer for them.
    What does one do if there is no opportunity for a safe call? Is there any other methods that one can use?
    That was sort of like the situation I was in my first time and why I didn't have a call in place. Keep in mind though... a safe call can be ANYONE that you trust. My friend in Canada, who was my safe call, I never met until almost a year later. I had met her through a D/s website and we had become friends, so she was aware of the risks, etc. When I used her as a safe call, she had ALL of my information, the number of the hotel, the name of the town, local police/sheriff's number, etc.

    So, if you don't feel that you can use your friends or family, is there someone from here you have spoken too and trust? The location of the "call" in my mind is not as important as their ability to notify the police in the location that you would be in if danger arose.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ozme52 View Post
    Use someone from the forum. Or find your local munch group, make a connection with a couple of the women, and use them.

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    I'm pro safe calls in general, but to the same degree you would have one for any first time social encounter...

    I don't believe there is a higher proportional risk to meeting someone from the Net. But then I've said that before.
    Quote Originally Posted by just_annie View Post

    So, if you don't feel that you can use your friends or family, is there someone from here you have spoken too and trust? The location of the "call" in my mind is not as important as their ability to notify the police in the location that you would be in if danger arose.
    I am just using my own situation as a guideline, I am quiet and tend to be a bit distant most times. It takes me a long time to be comfortable and to actually get to know others. So while I do "know" people, I don't know people well enough to ask a favour such as this. I just wonder if there are others who are new and do not know many people, who would just forgo the safe call, because there are no other options available to them.

    I suppose that am going to answer my own question since there are really no other viable options that can overide the significance and importance of a safe call.
    But thanks, and if I ever did actually meet someone, I would more than likely think twice and find someone who would help out.

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