Oddly enough, people in my fantasy are so faceless as to barely even be people. Whether I'm fantasizing about being submissive or dominant, I can only think about what's being done, rather than the people I'm doing things to/doing things to me. If I think about someone in particular, I get turned off.

This is very strange as I certainly get turned on by specific people when they are actually with me, but I don't seem to be able to get turned on by thinking about them.

Is anyone else this way?