Welcome again Kardi and deliasubbie.

Physical appearance is not a factor in the BDSM world. Only thing it may do is slow down your stamina. heheee

I'm not the "jock type" when it comes to physique, but I have the stanima and imagination of a "stick boy".

All and all, weight especially does not rule you out of ANY place in the BDSM world. We all accept you into the community with open arms, sweetie.