Of course a submissive is truly submitting if she/he puts terms on her/his submission! *rme* I'm not rolling my eyes at you, annie, but at the necessity of even asking such a thing. Maybe the dominant in this case is actually looking for a slave and not a submissive. Though some people use the terms interchangably, in my mind there is a huge difference. Anyone who can go into a relationship with no limits is either very brave or very foolish. I found this link to a submissive's bill of rights when I bumped an old thread on contracts.

http://http://wizdomme.com/infopack/subrights.shtml