I appreciate everyone's input the past couple days. Ive been thinking. He wants to try being my slave, but I think he's holding onto that "quick release button" too much. It seems the days when he's not in the mood are the days he's saying he wants to do it but he doesnt want to do it...no matter how consistant I am being. As long as he's holding onto the quick release he has no real reason to really get serious about it all. So, I was considering making a deal with him for now....21 days with all my rules, and sticking to them with no changing his mind every other day no matter what. And then on the 22nd day he can make his final decision and stick with that decision. I believe it would take away the quick release button and get him into actually trying it with his full mind and body. What does everyone think? :cuckoo: