ModestRose,

The 24/7 thing is what's hardest to swallow. I've been the submissive in the relationship with my hubby in the bedroom for a very long time. Yet I have no desire to be a 24/7 sub.

Even my pet and I are friends first, playmates second.

Very few can live and be happy in that 24/7 role and 21 days just doesn't seem like enough time to make that decision or too much. He either wants it or he doesn't.
If he doesn't want it with all of his being, do you want it for him?

What is the final decision you are asking him to make?