Thank you for the input. Basically, Mistress is halfway across the country and after a scene while speaking she suggested I take some time to read some more regarding the while D/s thing. She didn't tell me to find an online Dom, and I suppose you are right, I should ask her before considering it.

I should have been a bit more clear in how I'd worded my post, and will do my best to be more specific in the future. Thank you all very much though, all of your responses were quite helpful, and actually brought up some new things that i should discuss with Her. Thanks again guys, really, you've already been more help than you know.