Or alternatively, if you are having DNS lookup problems (Can't Find Server messages when the site is actually up) you can edit your hosts file to point
http://www.bdsmlibrary.com at the IP so that your computer doesn't have to do a lookup.
If that sounds like gobbeldygook to you but is something you think could help, I can give you instructions for doing that.
edit:
hmm or maybe not...trying to go directly to the IP gives me a default-style apache page, so I am guessing there must be some kind of rerouting going on. Ah well