I think I'm like the "sunday school girl" previously mentioned gone over to the deep dark side.

I never ever would have found BDSM without DH. Never would have considered it. At first I was repelled and appalled by it, then I thought it was something DH needed to be excited by me, then I understood how powerful it made me, and now I revel in both sub and domme. I cannot now imagine life without it. Vanilla seems so hopelessly bland and boring.

So I'm thankful that DH had the patience to teach me and the endurance to ride out my initial resistance and subsequent ineptitudes and i love the kinky sex life we now have