Steve,

Can a group be open minded and judgemental at the same time? I say yes.

For example,
I can be opened minded to your kink, even though it's not mine.

Simultaneously, I can be very harsh and judgemental about anything that would put anyone in danger of permanent harm whether that harm be mental or physical.

To repeat anon_artist:
You were not attacked, you were warned.

I was rather brutal towards the actions your domme was asking you to take and I stand by my statements.

So, let's get back to you.

If you've come here to learn, teach and/or meet up with such a person, fantastic. Welcome!

If you haven't already done so, please introduce yourself in the personals section with the type of domme your seeking.

If was I seeking a new sub, I would want to know more about you than your former domme.

To your success, health and happiness,

Ruby