Natalie-
Thanks for starting this thread. I will admit it is not something about which I know a whole lot as up to now it has been outside of my life experience.
The emotional pulls must be astronomical-as must the desire to "fit in" Few can stand against the "will of the herd"
I will follow this thread with interest and increase my knowledge of it all. I hope I don't sound condescending...Bugger. I don't mean to.
Ed.