Hello A/all,
I'm not currently active in the BDSM community, I have a little bit of exposure from past experiences, but I wouldn't consider myself qualified as a journeyman so to speak.
I do have friends who are active in the community, and they share their experiences with me. I have some participation in the community because of them, but I would call it more of a supporting role(i.e. the friend that is there for them, and offers them company).
I registered mainly because I don't understand some of the experiences that they've had, and would just like a place where I can go to seek qualified opinions from people of experience.
I've been told that a "rough rider" is a gay male top, while my name bears a striking resemblance to that term, it is not an indication of my sexuality.