Quote Originally Posted by carrie
Ruby, let me first say that this is all fantasy for me, a fantasy that I imagine myself in. Secondly, yes, it is blackmail! It's a guy blackmailing a woman into humiliating herself. Humiliation is never consensual unless it's someone who is into humiliation and then I have to wonder if it's more exciting than humiliating for her or him.

Humiliation is something that is "unwanted" not something that you get excited by. I know there are masters and subs that do the "humiliation" thing but quite frankly I don't get it. That's ok though, cause it isn't my fantasy.

This isn't a story I'm in the midst of writing, it was just an example of what I think of as "true humiliation". I guess I posted this because I get so frustrated reading stories that start off with a humiliation theme and suddenly the woman is enjoying it. Maybe my fantasies are sick, but they are more true to life than most of the stories I read.

Thanks to those who understood what I was saying.
I guess Carrie is right so far. Blackmail and humiliation can go hand in hand because the effect of blackmailing is, that the character has to act without being forced physically. I love this combination. It makes me very horny to read stories about blackmail that end up in humiliation.
But of cause Ruby is right , too. If you think of a girl humiliating herself for her own exicement it could be regarded differently. But the difference is
only slight: you could say she is forced by her own arrousel or something like that.