Hi all,

I am new here (that's what this thread is for eh?), and have joined because my girlfriend is very intrigued by BDSM, and has been on the 'scene' in previous relationships. She wants to bring this more into our relationship (not in life, just in play) and I am open enough to try it, especially since I have always liked kinky sex.

My problem is that I don't have the confidence to dominate her, and worry that I'll dissappoint her. We have discussed this openly, but I still don't have the confidence, even though we have played some scenes out and they have gone fairly well. As such, I thought that I would come here and try to learn about myself and others to try to help me reach a point I am comfortable at.

From what I have read I think that these forums may be a big step towards nice that!

Speak to you all soon